A mentor is a trusted advisor who guides and encourages you in your career. Having a mentor can help you succeed at your workplace and in your career.
Think of a mentor as a personal coach. In terms of your career, a mentor is someone who:
- answers your questions
- offers advice and constructive criticism
- suggests resources
- helps you network
- sets an example
With a mentor, you establish an ongoing relationship and make a commitment. You meet with your mentor regularly to track your progress and set goals.
Prepare for a mentor
If you’re interested in finding a mentor, first ask yourself these questions:
- What are my short- and long-term career goals?
- What skills, knowledge and experience do I need to reach these goals?
- Do I have a realistic view of my strengths and weaknesses?
- Can I handle constructive criticism?
Know how to find a mentor
Your workplace may offer a formal mentoring program that assigns you a mentor.
But maybe there is no formal program or you prefer choosing your own mentor. Consider these suggestions:
- Be sure you have your supervisor’s support for your plans.
- Look for a mentor from outside your chain of reporting relationships, someone in a position similar to yours, but with more experience.
- Be careful if you choose a mentor who is at a higher level than your supervisor or is your boss’s boss. Either situation could create issues or breed resentment.
- Think about a mentor from outside your workplace. Could such a mentor offer valuable perspective, particularly if they're familiar with your industry, workplace and job?
You may be able to find your mentor within your existing network. For example, your mentor could be:
- a former boss, instructor or employer
- a member of your online business network
- someone in your business association or union
- a member of a community group you belong to
Know what to look for in a mentor
Regardless of how you find your mentor, you’ll want someone who can see your potential and help you live up to it. Look for someone who has the qualities and skills you want to apply to your own career. An effective mentor is also:
- a good listener
- trustworthy, ethical and respected
- knowledgeable, skilled and well-connected
- interested in guiding, inspiring and empowering
- successful and experienced, with a proven track record
What if you have a mentor in mind but aren’t sure? Try to learn more about the person:
- Talk with people who’ve worked with your potential mentor.
- Check out any online profiles, such as on a business networking website.
- Read articles about the person’s work, like company reports and newsletters, to see what they’ve achieved or find interesting.
Approach a mentor
Once you’ve decided whom to approach, spend some time researching how you will do it.
Your initial approach can be formal or informal depending on how well you know your potential mentor and what you think would work best. If you choose a formal approach, be ready to:
- describe your career goals
- explain why you would like the person to be your mentor
- present a list of items you’d like help with
- find out what’s expected of you
- suggest a time commitment
- decide how you will communicate
If you decide on an informal approach, ask your potential mentor for advice about a specific item. Then keep in touch about the outcome. As your relationship develops, ask if you can continue to meet.
Make the most of the relationship
You may want to establish some ground rules for your relationship with your mentor. It's up to you to be proactive in maintaining the relationship:
- Be considerate of your mentor's time. A mentoring relationship usually involves only a few hours per month.
- Strive to succeed. Maintain the highest level of integrity. Keep conversations confidential. What you do and how you do it reflects on your mentor.
- Be honest about your needs. If the relationship is not working, say so in a considerate way. Don’t waste your mentor's time.
- Thank your mentor often with a note, email or small token of appreciation.
Your needs, and the kind of mentor you require, will change over the course of your career. When a mentoring relationship is no longer providing what you need, allow it to evolve into a friendship.
Boost your career with a mentor
Having a mentor can be very beneficial to your career. When choosing a mentor, look for someone who embodies the qualities you would like to attain. Be honest and ethical with your mentor. You may establish a relationship that can support you throughout your career.