Marriage and family counsellors help individuals, couples, and families understand and improve relationships, resolve emotional issues left over from past relationships, and enhance personal well-being. They help clients build their own strengths, resources, and resilience, and set out clear and realistic goals for the future.
In general, marriage and family counsellors assess and intervene in relational difficulties. They:
- Identify factors contributing to their clients’ problems, such as family violence, stress substance use and addictions, or mental health problems
- Ask questions and invite reflection to understand and facilitate change in the client’s thinking and behaviour
- Help clients identify, express, and manage feelings and behaviour in healthy ways
- Help clients identify and use their existing skills, resources, and abilities
- Help clients develop and maintain effective communication skills
- Help clients identify, confront, and resolve problems in constructive and affirming ways
- Act as coach and collaborator to help clients develop skills and strategies for dealing with family-related concerns
- Teach and support flexible, consistent, age-appropriate parenting skills
- Consult with or refer clients to other professionals as needed
- Maintain confidential records of clients’ progress
With requisite training, marriage and family counsellors may also:
Conduct crisis counselling sessions to help clients deal with suicidal impulses, divorce, job loss, grief, and other life changes